Oral Sex: Cunnilingus

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Eat Pussy Like a Pro

While no two women are exactly alike, there are many things that are universally enjoyed by women. No matter whether it's your first time going down on your girl or whether you're just looking to give your wife a little extra pleasure, the following step by step guide will have her raving about your skills.

Start Psychological
Start with the mental aspect. It's a vastly underrated element of a woman's sexuality and is almost completely misunderstood by the male species. Many women are self conscious about the way they taste and/or smell, especially when experimenting with a new partner. Tell her how much you're looking forward to tasting her sweet juices. Tell her you love the taste - it really turns you on. Tell her you're going to devour every last drop she has to offer. Tell her that you're good at it and you can't wait to show off your skills. Tell her all these things and anything else you can think of along the same lines. You want her to be comfortable sticking her crotch into your mouth, so it's best to lay the groundwork with some sweet talking.

Gentle Stroking
Once you've got her naked, begin with some soft stroking of her inner thighs. Stay away from her vagina, but let every soft stroke get tantalizingly closer and closer. Direct the strokes from the knees towards the vagina. This may tickle her a little, but she'll love every minute.

Positioning
Position yourself comfortably so that your mouth is comfortably at clit level. You can be in any number of positions, but it's important that you're both comfortable. We highly recommend the laying flat position for beginners as it is easy and intuitive. Once you're set, begin by softly kissing the outer lips of the vagina. Work your way around, teasing the lips with your tongue.

First Contact
As you reach the clitoris, dart your tongue in from underneath the clit and give it a good lick from the base to the tip. This will give you a good indication of how much direct clitoral stimulation she can take at this point. Try circling the clit for a while to get her rolling. Keep stimulating the area around the clit and the clit itself until she can take direct stimulation. For some women, this will be immediate, for others, you'll need to tease the area a bit before she can handle the direct contact.

Engage the Clitoris
Most of the time, you can actually feel the clitoris harden and swell with blood. This is a sign to you that it's time to focus on her pleasure button. Once you begin working hard on the clitoris, you can use a variety of techniques, but don't take your lips, tongue and mouth away from it. It's vital that you give the clit constant attention. You'll find that some women like different types of strokes than others, but, for the most part, you can simply wail away with your tongue back and forth across the clitoris to get the job done. Or lick it like a thirsty dog lapping at an ice cream cone. The figure 8 is a very nice move here.

The Home Stretch
Many women will start to buck and moan at this point. Their legs may start shaking and many will actually start thrusting their vagina deeper into your mouth. In some cases they're trying to position their clit just right on your tongue, but most of the time they're just enjoying the ride. In any case, this is the time to really dig in, intensify your efforts and go after the clitoris until she's spent. Try a clitoral blowjob or some tongue fucking when she's deep within the throes of ecstasy and she's likely to go over the edge with a mind blowing clitoral orgasm.

Mopping Up
Be careful here, as a large percentage of women become hyper-sensitive in the clitoral area just after orgasm. Even the tiniest touch can be painful. Most will push you away from the area when they're through. Don't sweat it. Your work is done.

Close the Deal
Tell her how she has the sweetest taste to her. Tell her you really can't believe how good it was and how much you enjoyed it. Trust us, she'll be back.

Lesbian Cunnilingus

Women tend to experience a special bond during cunnilingus that is unlike anything they feel with a man. Knowing the effect of each stroke may have something to do with it. The taboo nature of the act is also intoxicating to some. Women also tend to use a lighter, softer touch than men do. They can be gentle to an extent that only women can understand and really know when to turn it on down the home stretch. Many women experience orgasms of far greater length and intensity. And with two women at play, stamina never becomes an issue.

While you'll both be tempted to lie in the eternal bliss of non-stop 69, it's good to take time out to both give and receive during your lovemaking. Mix in vibes, dildos or other favorite goodies to spice up your session even more.

Sizzle Up Your performance With Different Cunnilingus Positions

What you have to keep in mind with cunnilingus is that while there are many oral sex positions to consider for your dining pleasure, you have to make sure that you can actually reach all of the parts necessary to get the job done. That does not mean you can't do any of the different cunnilingus positions, but just make sure that for the grand finale you switch to a cunnilingus position that will allow you the best access.

Also, don't go overboard and switch oral sex positions when things start getting good. While variety is the spice of life and it makes cunnilingus quite interesting, if you change cunnilingus positions every few minutes, your girlfriend is going to stop noticing the pleasant sensations and start noticing that you can't seem to get comfortable. That totally ruins it for her!

Cunnilingus Positions: Facing Her

That said; let's talk about the most obvious cunnilingus positions, which is her lying down with you facing her. This can be on the bed or couch, on a table, over a counter, wherever she feels comfortable laying her backside and giving you all access. One of the best ways to really work her over is to have her sprawl out on the dining room table and you pull up a chair to eat. Aside from its delightful imagery, it is actually one of the best ways to keep you both comfortable and give you great access to her bag of goodies.

Cunnilingus Positions: Sitting

A variation of this is to have her simply sitting in any of the above locations as you perform in front of her. It is a little more difficult because she is sitting on her more sensitive areas, but if you have her spread wide eagle, you can usually reach them. Keep in mind that she has nothing else to do but to watch you perform while she is in this position, so you really need to play up your visuals here. That means that you need to keep eye contact and show your desire for her. Let her know that you think she is sensual and sexy.

Cunnilingus Positions: "69"

Another common oral sex position is 69. Now, this is certainly a fun position in theory, but the problem is that someone invariably loses concentration. It is very difficult to focus on what one partner needs to do when they are receiving exceptionally good oral. The solution to this is to alternate. While one is performing, the other can gently lick or caress keeping the stimulation present, but not overloading it to the point where their partner loses concentration.

Cunnilingus Positions: Doggy Style

With cunnilingus, doing it doggie style is possible. Not every part of the genitals is at your disposal in this position, but it can certainly be fun. You also have a perfect opportunity to include some anal play in this position if your partner enjoys it. Be sure to check with your partner before engaging in any anal activities.

Cunnilingus Positions: Standing

Cunnilingus positions can also be attempted while she is standing up. This isn't a very effective position, though, because the parts you need to reach are much more difficult to access.

Still, everyone should try this at least once. Be sure that you support her weight when you attempt this position because her knees will buckle and she could hurt you and herself when she falls on top of you.

Cunnilingus Positions: Face Sitting

Another great position that leaves her in total control is letting her sit on your face. If she knows what she wants and exactly how to get it, then let her do it. All you have to do is lay there and stick out your tongue. Okay, so it is a little more involved then that, but you get the idea. This is a great position to have your hands exploring her other body parts. Just let her take the reigns and you enjoy the ride.

Doggy Style Cunnilingus - The Popular Cunnilingus Position

The doggy style cunnilingus position takes its name directly from the popular intercourse sexual position. But the doggy style cunnilingus position does not need to be associated with the negative criticism that the intercourse version of the doggy style position can sometimes get.

Before we go into the execution of the doggy style cunnilingus position, let us discuss the importance of having positions to spice up a cunnilingus session. Cunnilingus has a basic concept, which is to lick the vulva and clitoris. Tongue techniques can get you far, but it may one day become boring for you. So how does cunnilingus stay interesting?

Many couples spice things up during cunnilingus not by changing what they are doing, but how they are doing it. In short, they change their cunnilingus position. By varying the positions that you perform cunnilingus on your lover, you will be able to excite her and bring her to a more mind blowing orgasm that you ever thought imaginable.

Now let’s get down to business. How to execute the doggy style cunnilingus positions? Your lover will place herself on a solid surface on all fours, titling her hips slightly towards the ceiling. You will then place your face within licking and sucking distance from the vulva.

There are different variations that you can apply to this position. You can position yourself in a similar manner as your lover and bring your mouth to her vulva in this way. This position is so unique and pleasurable as the woman typically stays at the same position and the man can alter his placement in regards to her vulva in any way he chooses.

Generally, anything goes with this position, as long as the both of you are comfortable with it.

Female oral sex tips or guide to great cunningulus

Hello, faithful readers! Some time ago we had an article for the ladies: How to give great head or the guide to better fellatio. This time it´s the turn for the guys to learn!
Let me start this off by telling you that what I write here applies to me and most women.But maybe your lady will not like it, so the best way to prevent getting slapped on the head while you are down there is to TALK to your lady. Ask her what she likes and what she doesn´t like.
With that said, let´s proceed with my guide to how to give great oral sex to your woman!

I have met so many guy that think that just because they can go down on a woman and lick for hours on end they´ve got the technique on oral sex down to a science. Nothing further from the truth.
Read this and you will learn a few new things to do when you go down on your woman.

Oral sex is extremely important. I don´t know how many women prefer oral sex to the actual act of penetration but I must think close than half to them do. And it´s not that we don´t like penetration, but most women cannot achieve an orgasm purely from getting penetrated.

I bet you as a guy love it when your girl goes down on you. So why not go down on her properly?? Pleasure her down there orally and I can assure you she will enjoy sex more than she ever has.

Here´s a list of things you can do to give great oral sex to your woman:

-First of all, don´t go straight towards the vaginal area. Personally, I love getting teaed until I´m practically begging for it. Kiss her legs, lick her tummy and just tease her with your tongue. Make her think you are actually going in with your tongue and then just brush her labia with it.Give her some time to get nice and wet!

-Take your time down there! Don´t just spend 30 seconds and proceed with mindless penetration.Explore her entire vagina with your tongue slowly. Take notice of what she likes and where she likes by listening to the noises she makes and how she moves.

-Lick that clitoris! Spend time on the clit. Start off first by exploring around it with your tongue. Some women are very sensitive in this area and don´t enjoy immediate contact with it. Give her time to get nice and excited and make circles around it with your tongue. Most women will achieve orgasm if you stimulate the clitoris.

-Work her outer lips. Massage them while you are sucking on her clit. She will totally love this.Pull them apart slowly and then close together again.

-Get better access to her vaginal area by lifting her lower body with a pillow under the butt area. This way you will have more room for eating her out.

-While you are sucking on her clit, penetrate her with your fingers. She will totally love this. If sucking on her clit for a while didn´t make her achieve orgasm, this will drive her in to a crazy climax for sure!

-Use your hands to gently massage her breasts while you are eating her out. Remember the breasts are an important female erogenous zone.

-While you are sucking on her clitoris , hum a little. I know I totally love this. The vibrations caused by the humming feel awesome on the clitoris.

-I also love it my when my lover goes down on me with an ice cube in his mouth. Don´t place the ice directly on the clitoris or vagina though. Just move it around so there´s a cool feeling down there.

Ok, so I´ve told you about some things you can do.Now I feel the need to tell you what NOT to do.

-Sometimes us girls aren´t feeling so fresh down there. Don´t insist if she says she doesn´t feel like receiving oral or if you can tell she´s a bit reluctant.

-Keep those fingers clean and your nails short. You might cause her some damage if your nails are a bit long.

-Just because you went down on your girl doesn´t mean she has to go down on you. I mean, how many times has she given you some oral pleasure and you haven´t returned the favor? Think about it…

Well, there you go guys, I hope this small guide to cuningulus has given you some pointers on how to keep your significant other very happy. Remember, always ask her, communication is such a huge part of enjoying sex! Maybe there are some things that I wrote in this guide that will not work on your girl, she might not like it. So talk to her, and above all, always be ready to please her!